Why human will jealous? How we gonna know someone is jealous? All right.... In this post, i will be revealed to you guys why human get jealous easily and what are the causes of jealousy?
In scientific research, some situation which may cause you feeling jealous are;
a) when someone achieves something that you have always wanted to achieve but you failed to achieve it.
b) when someone flirts with your girlfriend or your boyfriend
c) when someone manages to get something which you think that he does not deserve for it.
d) when someone you hate so much that succeeds in his/her career.
Some of the causes which have been identified and the following are the main causes of jealousy;
1) Lack of self-confidence
Some people might think that he /she is not good enough especially in their attitude and behaviour. They keep on comparing himself/herself with another person and make assumption that they are not good enough for their partner. Thus, this creates low spirit and lack of confidence as well as jealousy in their mind.
2)Fear
Fear is another causes which lead to the feeling of jealousy.People falling into this category simply because they are afraid. They afraid of losing their partner, afraid to be alone after break up and even afraid to be rejected by partner. In their mind, they assumes that they cant compete with other competitor. So, they give up simply because they afraid and fear to lose. Therefore, they will jealous other people who flirt your boy or your girl.
3)Poor self image
Some people might think that they have the ugly appearance but perhaps they are not. They are not dare to compare themselves with another person because of his/her appearance. Thus, this make them feel jealous when someone (you hate) who is handsome/beautiful passing by.
Ways to reduce your jealousy;
i) Don't care what people said or judge you. Always remember that you are the best. Be confident to yourself.
ii) Don't care other people business. Move back to your track and keep on moving. He/She might be at your behind in one day.
iii) Don't make comparison between your and another people. Always remember, they are not fit to compare with you because you are still the best in overall.
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